Beside myself

Things just keep going further and further to hell.
Braden has stolen money from me already this week, and last night I went to take my mild sleeping pill (the one that gives me even that five or so hours of sleep I have so much trouble getting) and found out he'd stolen two weeks' worth of them from me. Bad enough he was stealing the painkillers that I now have to keep at Cory's house in her safe (don't even go there about the lengths I have taken to hide this shit from him; he's broken into my safe and found every single hiding place until I had to physically remove them from the premises) and if I'm in pain I have to wait until she can bring me some...but now I won't be sleeping for the rest of this month because I can't get more...I get a set amount that is one a day per month and now they're gone. And he of course lies and says he didn't take them "doesn't know what they're even for" Yeah, right. That was his story with the percacets for the last year and he finally admitted he took them. I know exactly how many sleeping pills were in that container and when it was filled. I'm not stupid. On top of it, he screamed at me for an hour last night calling me a 'fucking bitch' and a 'fucking cunt' many times interspersed with the f word every other word because I didn't believe him. I guess he's probably selling them to get his pot. Who knows. I hope he's not taking them. :(
I called his father to come get him tonight, but I doubt he will. He rarely returns my calls. I called Braden's school this morning and oh! what a surprise...he is failing 2 of his 4 classes and rarely attends school, though I see him off every day and he comes home when it's supposedly finished. The news just keeps getting better.
I can't cope with the stealing, lying, verbal abuse, not being able to have my medication I need in the house, or money , coming home after work to a mess that I left clean before work every day, on top of the health crap, the landlord crap...I am at the end of my rope. I'm so worried about him, and nothing I have done has changed the situation. I have seriously explored every avenue except kicking him out permanently, which seems the only thing left to do. :( It breaks my heart. I have tried getting him counselling, (he won't go), social workers, tried making contracts with him, tried getting his dad to help, the school to help, doing extracurricular stuff with him, spending more time with him, talking to him, outside agencies...wtf else can I do!!
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